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Footprints of a giant.

Isn't life strange?


When I was a child I had a very close relationship with my father. He was my hero, I looked up to him and I have him to thank for my love for music. His passion for classical (and church) music was my inspiration and the reason I learned to play the piano.


My mother was the reason I continued with the piano lessons. Her encouragement when I wanted to give up is what pushed me towards becoming a moderately talented pianist.
I have come to realize, in the almost two years since her death, that my mother was my real inspiration in life. And thankfully she still is. When I am sad and discouraged, it is her voice I hear. I can hear it clearly in my mind, encouraging me not to give up, and then I feel her presence so very clearly next to me.
And with her ever present nearness I have nothing to fear or be sad about.

These last few years have been an eye opening experience.
Ever since my mom's passing I have been struggling with my spiritual life. I have discovered deep seated resentments and hurts I honestly never knew existed.


I am also very glad I had the mother I had. I can imitate her courage, her determination, her love and her unwavering support to the people she loved. March 11th will be the two year anniversary of her death, and I can honestly say that it is getting easier.

Easier to recognize her voice when my thoughts get too dark. Easier to recognize her courage coming through in the tough situations. Easier to love the people I am close to despite their faults. Easier to practice the same devotion she had to the people she loved.

And I know I have God to thank for this, because He gave her to me. I now know her purpose in life was to prepare us for the journey we find ourselves on. God really does work in mysterious ways!

I have a new favorite country song, it's titled "Footprints of a Giant" by Dean Brody. I definitely have footprints of a giant stretching out in front of me, and I thank the Lord for them everyday.

Confessions of a New Mummy

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  1. AprilFebruary 4, 2020 at 4:24 PM

    She sounds wonderful. I still have my mother, but she lost hers at 36, and my cousin just lost her mom a year ago, and my heart goes out to you all.

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  2. kateonthiniceFebruary 4, 2020 at 9:11 PM

    Such a beautiful post and has come at a really good time for me as have just said to someone that I wish my Mum and Dad were around. My mum shared characteristics with yours by the sound of things and as I have difficult decisions to make about my future, your post helped me think I might just do the right thing and be brave after all. Love how blogging leads us to inspiraition #TwinklyTuesday

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    1. Elsa PieterseFebruary 5, 2020 at 5:19 AM

      Thank you for your kind reply Kate. Just listen to that voice guiding you, she will never lead you astray. And you are braver than you think. Good luck with your decisions, I will keep you in my prayers.

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  3. KateFebruary 10, 2020 at 10:14 PM

    Can only imagine how difficult it is losing your Mum. I'm sure she is still guiding you in her own way. Thanks for sharing and linking up #TwinklyTuesday

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